Dealing with Unsupportive Family

As you plan for gatherings with family and friends, do you dread the thought of having conversations about your homeschool? It’s natural to feel apprehensive when interacting with those who may not understand or support your educational choice. However, with some forethought and preparation, you can have confident and peaceful conversations with those who feel the need to share their concerns about your family decisions. 

Preparing Your Heart: Three Things to Keep in Mind for Inner Strength & Peace of Mind

Your Purpose. Keep your reason and vision for homeschooling at the forefront of your mind. Revisit your annual goals. If you haven’t recorded your vision and goals for the year, take the time to think on them and write them down. Consider the big picture and the long game. You are taking this alternative route for a higher purpose.

Your Progress. Take note of the growth, learning, and academic accomplishments that have taken place over the course of a year. Review your daily logs or student planners and identify some specific ways your child has benefitted and improved as a result of homeschooling so far.

Your Precious Memories. Spend a few minutes reflecting on the good times you and your children have shared together so far. Even if the year has been a tough one, there are bound to be things to be grateful for. Flip through your phone photos and remind yourself of the moments that you likely wouldn’t have had if your children were away from you for many hours every day.

Preparing Your Mind: Top Questions That Concerned Family and Friends Will Ask

Anticipate these concerns and mentally prepare short and more in-depth responses, depending on the nature of the question.

Are you able to provide a quality education?  You are. There are endless resources for all academic approaches to home education and no one is more passionate about your child’s success than you. Remember that, statistically, homeschooled students fare extremely well academically on standardized tests and in college. Also, free curriculum consultations provided through your HSLDA membership gives you expert support and guidance.